This is obviously not rave related. But I'll make an exception this time.
Well during Thanksgiving dinner at my Grams I ask for my uncle John. My sister looked at me very wierd and i wondered why and so i gave her a wird look back. My Gramma said nothing and acted like she didn't her me. Then my mom gave me a signal to go to the "restroom" then she told me that he had died a few years back, that was really embarrassing and hurtful to my Grams. I was really sorry.